I'm at the point I always hit where I lose steam. I can play some basic stuff, but not anything too difficult. The problem is I have trouble finding fun songs to play that aren't too hard, or finding songbooks or teach-yourself books that are both fun and not too hard.
What I really want, and what I think is the right way to teach guitar to a dabbler like me is :
A book songs, in progression of difficulty
The songs need to be modern (post-60's), fun, familiar
(classic rock is pretty safe)
The songs need to be the *actual* songs. Not simplified versions. Not transposed versions.
Not just the chords when the real song is much more complex.
When I play it, it needs to sound like the actual recording.
No funny tunings. I can't be bothered with that.
and so far as I know nothing like that exists.
I've got a bunch of "easy rock guitar songbooks" and they all fucking suck.
There are lots of good tabs on the internet, and I've found some good stuff to learn that way, but fuck that. The last thing I want to be doing in my relaxing time is browsing the internet trying to decide which of the 400 fucking versions of the "Heartbreaker" tab is the right one I should try to learn.
(in the past I taught myself some classical guitar, and in contrast there are lots of great classical, and even finger-picking folk guitar song books and instructional progressions that give you nice songs to learn that are actually fun to play and sound like something)
I've tried taking lessons a few times in the past and the teachers always sucked. Maybe they were good in terms of getting you to be a better player, but they were awful at making it fun.
I had a teacher who wanted me to sit with a metronome and just pick the same note over and over to the metronome to work on my meter. WTF. You're fired. All teachers want you to play scales. Nope. And then for the "fun" part they want to teach some basic rock rhythm, A-A-E-E,A-A-E-E. Nope, I'm bored. You're fired. Then I get to learn a song and it's like some basic blues I've never heard of or some fucking John Denver or something. (*)
They seem to completely fail to understand that it has to keep the student interested. That's part of your job being a teacher. I'm not trying to become a professional musician. I don't have some great passionate motivation that's going to keep me going through the boring shit and drudgery of your lessons. You have to make it fun all the time.
(* = there is some kind of weird thing where people who play music generally have horrible taste in music. It's like they pay too much attention to either the notes/chord/key or to the technical playing, neither of which actually matter much. It's the feeling, man.)
It was interesting for me to see this in ceramics. I was lucky to find a really great teacher (Bill Wilcox) who understood that it had to be fun, and that this was a bit of a lark for most of us, and some were more serious than others. Maybe he wasn't the most efficient teacher in terms of conveying maximum learning in a set time period - but he kept you coming back. We occasionally had different guest teachers, and they were way more regimented and methodical and wanted you to do drills (pull a cylinder 20 times and check the walls for evenness), and you could see half the class thinking "fuck this"
I suppose this is true of all learning for some kids. Some kids are inherently motivated, I'm going to learn because I'm supposed to, or to get into a good college, or "for my future", or to be smarter than everyone else, or whatever. But other kids see a cosine and think "wtf is that for, who cares".
I've always thought the right way to teach anything is with a goal in mind. Not just "hey learn this because you're supposed to". But "we want to build a catapult and fire it and hit a target. Okay, we're going to need to learn about angles and triangles and such...". The best/easiest/deepest learning is what you learn because you need to learn it to accomplish something that you want to do.
What I need in guitar is a series of mini goals & accomplishments. Hey here's this new song, and it's a little bit too hard for me, but it's a fucking cool song so I actually want to play it. So I practice for a while and get better, and then I can play it, yay! Then I move on to the next one. Just like good game design. And WTF it just doesn't seem to exist.